Reading racy writing:
Connect with your partner and explore your fantasies with erotica
By Laura Roberts
Reading to your partner is a great way to connect,
particularly if you share similar interests. Many couples like to read each
other bits and pieces from the newspaper or their favorite magazines, but have
you ever thought about connecting this way in the bedroom?
Sexual therapists often suggest that partners reconnect
physically through massage and gentle touching. But why neglect your body’s
largest erogenous zone? The brain is truly at the root of our connection to our
lovers, yet it’s frequently left out of the equation. Instead of ignoring your
mind and its important role in your love life, why not tantalize it with a bit
of naughty literature?
Erotica is a great way to engage both your mind and your
body, and these days there’s plenty to choose from, thanks to Fifty Shades of Gray. Whether you’re
interested in gentle romance or much more explicit works, there’s something for
everyone.
You may be wondering what the difference is between erotica
and pornography, particularly if you’ve never sought either out before. Don’t
worry: while erotica is meant to tempt and tease the reader, it is rarely as
raunchy as full-on porn. Even the most detailed erotic story aims to seduce the
reader, rather than simply describing sexual acts in lewd detail. Better still,
as there’s lots left to the imagination, reading these kinds of stories
frequently creates a craving for your own partner’s special touch.
Why read erotica? Because it’s stimulating!
To best connect with your partner, first seek out an erotic
story that appeals to you. It could be about a fantasy you’ve always had, or something
that makes you feel sensual and aroused. You can find lots of free samples
online at woman-friendly sites like Clean Sheets, The Erotic Woman and Literotica. Pick a piece that
turns you on, and then bring it to bed with you for an erotic reading session.
If you’re worried about how you’ll sound reading your dirty
story aloud, you can practice ahead of time. Remember that your reading doesn’t
have to be perfect; it just has to engage your audience. Make eye contact with
your partner, especially during the parts you find most exciting, and feel free
to act out the scene if it feels right. You can always abandon your reading if
it puts you and your partner in the mood for love.
Reading sexy stories is a great way to explore your
fantasies, connect with your partner, and open up the lines of communication
for further discussions about sex and love. So why not try it tonight?
Laura Roberts is the author of 69
Sexy Haiku: Erotic Poems for Lovers, a short book of haiku fantasies meant
to be shared, as well as The Vixen Files:
Naughty Notes from a Montreal Sex Columnist. She writes erotic literature
and sexual self-help books for Buttontapper Press, and can be found online
@originaloflaura or Buttontapper.com
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